Learning Frustrations

I learned yesterday through talking with my mom that I am a kinesthetic learner. And as I think about that more, I feel like I am so alone. Am I the only person who learns this way? I am so frustrated. I just don't understand why when there are different learning styles how those people can just be expected to mesh into the rest of the cookie-cutter-system. How have I made it this far? I feel like a failure when I do not match up to the standards of my professors or classmates. What is the point if I'm not even learning anything? And then what do I do since this is a struggle for me when I see that there is no effort being made to teach to the differences?